Tuesday, December 31, 2013

{ Moving On....Looking Back}



"Have you ever noticed that sometimes we go about life doing things everyday and we end up in a bit of a rut? Maybe we lost sight of the magic in life; or the excitement that was once there as a kid but now seems to be lost in the piles of responsibility".... and hustle of our everyday lives.  The stages of in and out, this and that ....those big and little things that make up life this year I found that....
"Without a goal there can be no real success." Thomas S. Monson  #ldsquotes I set some goals for myself this year
we set some as a family and
 we had a few successes and some setbacks but we carried on
and felt good about finishing...... 
some took a short
amount of time 
others took till today...
but no less we set them and finished them and it feels 
really good 
for me it gets me out of that RUT...
Makes me feel like I have a purpose more than 
the best job on earth that of being a mother
but more
then the cleaner, meal maker and more than
the nose wiper and taxi.......
 as important as those things are
we have to set goals for ourselves so we can progress
individually, together and eternally....
2013
was a year of growth fitting that my word for the year 2013 was
"carry on"
and we did 
we carried on after all the changes that took place 
big and little
moved on from hurtful happenings
let things go..
carried on with the things we loved
and carried into new things 
adapting and supporting and growing
and loving along the way.....
feeling a lot like this most of the time
 holding down the fort and making it all work out
full of joy, learning, growth, humility and letting go...

SO 2013 summed up:

What did you do in 2013 that you had never done before?

Went to Georgia and North Carolina Daytona Beach together loved it! 


 Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year? 

Yep we set goals Reading the book of Mormon all together and today we will have accomplished that!  Ihop reward is what they picked;)
I set 3 goals for myself 
1} I read {listened to it every morning}  the Bible and Book of Mormon this year and loved it and learned more than I ever have before it is SO for our times RIGHT NOW! I gained far more from it than I ever have and it did help me to keep Calm and Carry On throught the year!

2} I wanted to continue to make jewelry and sell it and I set a higher goal for myself of a $1000 towards my Europe travel fund ......but not only did I far surpass that but I gained confidence in myself that I COULD DO IT! and I did and it was fun and I had a very successful year! and found a name for  it........... Simply Me Accessories
3} I wanted to learn to run and love it and the benefits and to keep fit and eat a cleaning gluten free way of life and I DID! I love running and today my goal at the end of the year I hit 300 miles on my nike app {that doesn't count the elliptical and most of my treadmill runs till the past three months} I feel good healthy and strong.......and I LOVE RUNNING! I love early mornings and I love the feeling of accomplishment and the love I have gained from it. I may not be the fastest buy its a long way from a walk:)

personal improvement is what its all about....

What countries did you visit?

Just the UsA soon to be the world;) Florida Georgia N.C Montana and Utah Idaho:) Met some of the awesome six sisters girls and enjoyed lots of great memories with D and the Kids





What would you like to have in 2014 that you lacked in 2013?

peace in the things I can't change 
peace in the future
peace within myself
peace in my home


What dates from 2013 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

We had a really great year lots of fun and good memories but June 23rd the day Darren got called to be the bishop or our ward will always be a very humbling and spiritual experiences to all of us the night he was called will be with me forever....

 and being released as the primary president I learned a lot from that calling...being the YW secretary is giving me a lot to learn too

and then DEC 20th my K oldest turning 12 and taking on new big responsibilities and growing up on me:(



  What were your favorite new recipes?

I'd have to say Kettle Corn we love it found here
 Easy Kettle Corn Recipe on twopeasandtheirpod.com Our favorite popcorn and it's so easy to make at home! 
also a few chicken ones and learning to adapt meals to be GF and lots of clean eating meals way easier than you think:)

What was the best thing you bought?
I'd have to say our new car love it! Its a Toyota Camry 

What is one of your best finds this year?
 {I think this was this year?}
DOWNTON ABBY 
its my favorite favoritist show ever feeds my English obsession my history obsession and my regal obsession 

deal sites {well those were actually dangerous} 
 Where did most of your money go?

Well lets see the above question's answer, kids, school, sports, growing kids and food, kids and clothes, mom and clothes 
small shopping addictions and awesome sale deals;)

 What did you get really excited about?

our Georgia trip, Utah trip and all our summer fun 
and doing the 12 days of priesthood for K when he turned 12 it was awesome and I loved doing it as much as he loved receiving it and I truly believe he has a stronger testimony of the priesthood the power responsibility and great gift that it is in his life...thanks to all the men in our families who took the time to write him a letter

 What was your favorite TV programs?
same as last year:)
Loved Parenthood, Biggest Loser, Revolution, Revenge,  and The bachelors ;)

 What were your favorite books of the year?

The one I finished yesterday finally got my hands on one:)
 I LOVE LOVE her books 
 also read these
 didn't have as much time for reading this year ...

What kept you sane?
 who said I was;)
My treadmill and early morning summer mornings, early afternoon or late night:) whenever I could work it in
-long baths and on line shopping;) and a good husband, friends:)
 IT was a hard year time wise and sane wise with D and his calling and learning a new normal and finding time together
and I really really cherish the trips we took together D&I  it was our year for the two of us and hopefully coming up we can take a family trip again...

But what really kept me sane was a listening, and understanding ear, a hug and my Heavenly Father and prayers, scriptures, the temple and my faith and testimony that all these things shall be for our good......and each year I'm learning that more and more....things happen for a reason.... life happens for a reason....its what we do with it...


A few of my Favorite pictures of 2013



 Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2013

or some of my favorite quotes that pretty much tell it like it is:) Valuable lessons to be learned from all of them and what is the very most important in life::

"There are going to be times in our lives when someone else gets an unexpected blessing or receives some special recognition. I plead with us not to be hurt—and certainly not to feel envious—when good fortune comes to another person? We are not diminished when someone else is added upon... The race we are really in is the race against sin, and surely envy is one of the most universal of those. - Elder Holland

"What happens in cradles and kitchens will prove to be more effective than what goes on in congress." - Neal A. Maxwell

  "When your kids tell you you’re mean, take it as a compliment. The rising generation have been called the laziest, rudest, most entitled kids in history. Don’t give up. They may think you’re mean now, but they’ll thank you later. - Deseret News

 "Be the girl you want your daughter to be, be the girl you want your son to date. Be classy, anything but trashy."

 "Motherhood is not a battle against other mothers. Motherhood is YOUR journey with YOUR children." -Love this quote

 "Not everyone will understand your journey, thats fine. Its not their journey to make sense of. It's YOURS." 

 "A mother has far greater influence on her children than anyone else, and she must realize that every word she speaks, every act, every response, her attitude, even her appearance and manner of dress affect the lives of her children and the whole family. It is while the child is in the home that he gains from his mother the attitudes, hopes, and beliefs that will determine the kind of life he will live and the contribution he will make to society."
- N. Eldon Tanner


 "Man's laws cannot make moral what God has declared immoral!" - Elder Dallin H. Oaks.

“Give your child a compliment and a hug; say, ‘I love you’ more; always express your thanks. Never let a problem to be solved become more important than a person to be loved. Friends move away, children grow up, loved ones pass on. It’s so easy to take others for granted, until that day when they’re gone from our lives and we are left with feelings of ‘what if’ and ‘if only. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey and share our love with friends and family.' -TSM

 "Behind every great kid, is a mom who's pretty sure she's screwing it up." 

 "Expecting a trouble-free life because you are a good person is like expecting the bull not to charge you because you are a vegetarian" -Jeffery R Holland. 

"Don’t you quit. You keep walking. You keep trying. There is help and happiness ahead. Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don’t come until heaven..... It will be all right in the end. 
Trust God and believe in good things to come." 
—Jeffrey R. Holland
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 Tomorrow, is the first blank page of a 365 page book. Write a good one.

Good-bye 2013
You have made me laugh
You have made me cry, but its time to move on:)

HELLO 2014 
word of the year and goals for 2014 to come....

Thanks for still reading my little old blog.
I love comments and knowing who's reading too;) 
Happy NEW YEARS  
What are your dreams, desires, goals, thoughts for 2014?  

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

{Merry Christmas 2013 }

 Merry Christmas From our house to yours...

A few randoms and few words:)))))
 My big 12 year old looking extra handsome in his suit for his big day  on sunday
 an attempt at Christmas Sunday shots as good as it got sunday morning

 beautiful L
 handsome boys...... girl
 ha ha he has a candy ring around his mouth...real life;)


 oh look he does exist and slow down sometimes;)

 and tonight some bad iphone blurry shots but cute none the less:)

Merry Christmas hope its a great week together with those you love..

Christmas Day

Friday, December 20, 2013

{ Christmas Gifts.}


 #Christmas #quote Silver gold glitter ToniK Ðℯck Ʈհe HÅĿĿs

There are two gifts in this season for me the first being the Reason for the Season He was a gift to the world the only begotten son.....
We got our Christmas miracle 12 years ago on Dec 22..... three days before Christmas and two days after he was born..
 {when he was born he had two huge mickey mouse looking bumps from the vacuum and forceps it took over 6 weeks to come down at the top of his head so hats were necessary till he recovered:)

"Live for the moments you can't put into words." 

 I have had five of those. I feel so blessed especially today and can't help think about 12 years ago I wasn't even there when Kolten was born!! He was 2 days old when we got him but how thankful I am to his birth mother and her love for him and for the greatest Christmas Gift we have ever received or ever will with each of our kids. So where ever she is I hope she knows how very much we love her and this boy who is a gift in our lives everyday! And the greatest Christmas Miracle ever.
cute the day he was born 
 0-8
 9-11

and handsome and kind 
and helpful and caring and all the things that matter most 
He has a strong spirit and knows right from wrong
loves sports 
reading and being busy
loves lego and knowing how things work
and wants to be an Engineer when he grow up 
knows what he wants and works hard for it
He completed his faith in God book in primary and did amazing!! 
He sets goals, reads his scriptures
sees the needs of others
is so helpful to me most of the time
is always aware of what is going on
is helpful and holds doors for others
jumps up when somebody needs help without being nudged
he is such a joy and blessings from the first day I held him he really did have my heart from day one!! 
Happy Birthday Kolt!! 
12 years old!!  We love you!!!

Had a simple birthday day he had a fun at school only the second year school has still been in since they break later for Christmas break now...but instead of sugar cereal this year he asked for swedish pancakes and berries..and I love that he requests his favorites for dinner every year the same thing ...homemade pizza, ceaser salad garlic bread and smoothies and lemonade ice cream cake:) 
food is the way to a young boys heart too;)
 he's as tall as his tired old mom now and just keeps growing...
 finally got his long awaited ipod adapter so he can listen to music on his dock:) He also got all the new suit fixings for Sunday:)
 and can't forget the crazy one and the reason I never get any good pictures because he makes faces and NEVER slows down...
 and a pretty little girl:)
Sure love these kids and my big birthday boy who's entering a new stage of life lets pray we all make it though just fine I have good kids and I hope all these years of teaching, playing, reading and making memories last forever:))
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This Christmas kind of took some simpler routes with so much going on and dad gone as with a lot life these past 6 months..... it has just been different and Christmas is here pretty much but we've had some quiet nights getting caught up on our books and sometimes getting some activities in but scenes like this and kids all over the floor reading warms my heart....
we've done school christmas concerts and cute preschool mornings
crafts, songs and cookie decorating, Christmas cards and concerts parties and all that fun:)
 "God's gifts, unlike seasonal gifts, are eternal and unperishable, constituting a continuing Christmas which is never over." —Neal A. Maxwell
Merry Christmas and a very Happy 2014
from our family to yours

#Christmas #quotes ToniK Ðℯck Ʈհe HÅĿĿs #DIY #crafts Merry & Bright

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

{10 for Tuesday....and a little history;)}

May your choices reflect your hopes not your fears. ~Nelson Mandela  My choices definitely reflect my fears. Must work on this.



1. Whoa this month is flying by already....... thought I was ahead but sadly I'm behind.

2. Frustrated about things that change that I dislike a lot.... because I'm not an easily change it person for some things.

3. I feel single parentish a lot lately but I realize why and its okay because I can do my part and be supportive and strong where it matters most. Building our home children and relationships there.

4.Excited for Christmas but sad it won't be at my parents "home" I love tradition and I really wish it was at home haven't missed it once in my life  :( but I still get excited like I always have ....ex. 1976 
{enjoy a blast to the past today ha ha:)


...check out the tupperware shape sorter at the bottom on this next one so fun year 1978



5. A little tired of snow, cold, snow days, frigid air, icy roads, pipes bursting, no buses running its been quite the week around here! Cabin fever is setting in;) and {sigh} its only December ;)

6. Sometimes I feel like I'm not good at anything...... then I feel successful for something I've worked hard at and on...... and then somebody starts doing it too just like me and I feel like what I'm doing isn't good enough anymore and why try etc etc because it doesn't set me apart from everybody else like its my thing when its not my thing but my head plays tricks on me........ just like all of us that we are never good enough doesn't it!!?? does that make sense.....

7. I love the little notes my children leave me ......or the letter K wrote me this week for his faith in God requirements that made me cry and made me realize that sometimes we have NO IDEA that the things we teach our children ACTUALLY are making a difference THEY ARE SHAPING them into the big kids they are becoming with thoughts, feelings and growing testimonies and individual big personalities that are being shaped...... it makes my heart happy that the things we teach and try to get them to understand are making a difference.

8. I'm having a open house for drop ins for my spare time:) side fun jewelry making venture... Simply Me Accessories...so come by whenever or message me for those that live around here:) and I don't ship it costs so much more sorry:( ... I had a couple goals this year to reach and I'm pretty excited I am just shy of reaching them. I stretched myself this year went out of my comfort zone and had fun doing it. I'm excited for next year and for achieving more goals I set for myself:)

9. Need a laugh here's one: Some people look like their pets or spouse or maybe a brown haired annie or their doll ;) oh the hair ha ha;) what were you thinking mom;)  Good thing we grow up eh;)

10. Okay enough of the laughs;) ....
Saw this poem on face book today and it got me thinking.... its a great reminder for all of us that 
its okay not do everything 
its okay to not be the perfect mom we perceive to see in others
its okay NOT to do what others are doing
its okay to say no
its okay
its okay to not be an elf on the shelf mom;)
its okay to not have your books wrapped under the tree this year so far were still reading them
its okay to be who we are 
its okay to try again tomorrow

Its okay to SLOW DOWN and really listen, watch and learn together no matter what the world around us is doing, or saying or demanding of our time  because before we know it they are where we are now
childhood doesn't last forever
{this feels like it just happened.... I'm sure every person who's told you it goes by quick really  means it I guess all this comes from having a boy turning 12 next week 
I feel like he was just born}
 i love this picture and all my brothers and sisters and my mama:) pretty much looking like refugees ha ha.... in all its amazing '80's fashion

 Slow DOWN this Christmas cherish what you have, Cherish the season, family and the reason why this season is the most loving, peaceful, giving and warm its a feeling inside..... a feeling that comes closest to our Saviors love for us......if only the world understood that...
 
Slow down
slow down mummy, there is no need to rush,
slow down mummy, what is all the fuss?
slow down mummy, make yourself a cup of tea.
slow down mummy, come spend some time with me.

slow down mummy, let's pull boots on for a walk,
let's kick at piles of leaves, and smile and laugh and talk.
slow down mummy, you look ever so tired,
come sit and snuggle under the duvet, and rest with me a while.

slow down mummy, those dirty dishes can wait,
slow down mummy, let's have some fun - bake a cake!
slow down mummy, I know you work a lot,
but sometimes mummy, it's nice when you just stop.

sit with us a minute,
and listen to our day,
spend a cherished moment,
because our childhood won't stay!

~ R. Knight
 ....because we all grow up and with it are our childhood memories good or bad its part of who we are......slow down .....
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"A mothers dream is to see her children grow up happy and successful"

What are some of your favorite childhood Christmas memories?

Have a GREAT week make it a good one.