Well I think I've hit the January Funk where the sun is calling my name, where the kids are tired of being cooped up, where I have cabin fever and need out! Oh well... all in time.
SO our weekend started off with Kolt's stitches, he still went to his friends house and then slept the whole way there just about to my brothers house which is only and hour and half away but he was exhausted. Wii spent the weekend well most of it anyway it was nice to see them and enjoyed spending time with them.
My brother is like the entertainer/ host of the year. He goes all out and is a good cook and I knew before I was going that he would feed us to good and too much lol! So I spent an hour on the treadmill before I went - thank goodness I did ha ha! Thanks for a fun weekend guys!
They also got a Wii for Christmas so my kids were loving it {I'm pretty sure D was too though he won't admit it} A little competitive boxing any one....
I am so wii challenged, rock band challenged and guitar hero challenged when it comes to these kinds of things. Its almost embarrassing and its best if I just stay away from it so I quietly watch. and I'm totally fine with that!!!
So the concentration there! A few cousin fights and hits in the head with the wii remotes I think they had fun.... 
It's just honestly something we would never have in our house cause I know Kolt would be really addicted to it! He loves stuff like that, so he can enjoy it at his uncle's house and friends!
SO our weekend started off with Kolt's stitches, he still went to his friends house and then slept the whole way there just about to my brothers house which is only and hour and half away but he was exhausted. Wii spent the weekend well most of it anyway it was nice to see them and enjoyed spending time with them.
My brother is like the entertainer/ host of the year. He goes all out and is a good cook and I knew before I was going that he would feed us to good and too much lol! So I spent an hour on the treadmill before I went - thank goodness I did ha ha! Thanks for a fun weekend guys!
They also got a Wii for Christmas so my kids were loving it {I'm pretty sure D was too though he won't admit it} A little competitive boxing any one....
It's just honestly something we would never have in our house cause I know Kolt would be really addicted to it! He loves stuff like that, so he can enjoy it at his uncle's house and friends!
D and I just never grew up with video games or anything like it! and I do admit that the wii is much more physical then just sitting and video gaming it. I guess if your used to always having it its no big deal. so these are my thoughts this week for ......
{Don't get me wrong all I'm trying to say is in moderation and balance...}
ME THINKS
I find it can be a huge time waster{ no offence to anybody who really enjoys them and has them these are just my random thoughts} of course so can so many other things like face book and computer time in general. I think its smart those that have a Wii and use it to their advantage. Like if you do these many chores and listen good you can have 1/2 hour on the wii, etc. I have quite a few friends who do it and it works great for them! I think the wii fit is awesome and beneficial I've never personally seen it or used it just heard good things in general about it.
ME THINKS
I find it can be a huge time waster{ no offence to anybody who really enjoys them and has them these are just my random thoughts} of course so can so many other things like face book and computer time in general. I think its smart those that have a Wii and use it to their advantage. Like if you do these many chores and listen good you can have 1/2 hour on the wii, etc. I have quite a few friends who do it and it works great for them! I think the wii fit is awesome and beneficial I've never personally seen it or used it just heard good things in general about it.
I just have a hard time with the video game side of things sometimes and things like ipods for young kids with music they don't even need to be listening too - at any age!
Or cell phones for 10 year olds what the heck! There is so much stuff out there that takes away from the important things they could be doing and learning.
What happened to building forts, riding bikes, going outside period doing physical stuff, or developing their talents not just with their thumbs!
ARE WE RAISING A LAZY GENERATION???
Not saying some don't, its just hard for me to watch little kids with earphones in their ears looking slightly stoned or zoned, or little kids on cell phone who are constantly checking and sending texts and emails.
Or cell phones for 10 year olds what the heck! There is so much stuff out there that takes away from the important things they could be doing and learning.
What happened to building forts, riding bikes, going outside period doing physical stuff, or developing their talents not just with their thumbs!
ARE WE RAISING A LAZY GENERATION???
Not saying some don't, its just hard for me to watch little kids with earphones in their ears looking slightly stoned or zoned, or little kids on cell phone who are constantly checking and sending texts and emails.
It's just a different world then when we grew up that's for sure.
I guess D and I are just old fashioned too we get our kids old movies from a time where they could still talk about GOD and have morals and faith. We get the old games we used to play when we were young. sorry, trouble, crazy eights, old maid, twister! The kids love it!
We go on lots of walks and bike rides, all spring, summer and fall.
we spend lots of time at the park, camping and learning about history stuff sometimes things like remembrance day what it stands for why we honor it , we learn about pioneers
we learn about the things I don't want my kids to forget about that are real and that happened, not just what's happening now .
I feel like this generation lets kids be lazy that some parents are enabling them, those that don't let them have experiences that they could learn and grow from. I think some parents hinder and protect there kids too much like not letting them go on a scout camp or a girls camp whatever because why???
"they just don't feel like it" or don't want to be separated from that cell phone or that game boy. Or its to much work??? WHAT. Too many kids miss so many important opportunities out there to be had.
I just feel like sometimes they {electronics} take so much away from the quality of life in young people, and us too I guess .
{ I admit I am mildly addicted to my computer:}
Does anybody else feel like this? Or maybe I am just really old- fashioned.
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I guess D and I are just old fashioned too we get our kids old movies from a time where they could still talk about GOD and have morals and faith. We get the old games we used to play when we were young. sorry, trouble, crazy eights, old maid, twister! The kids love it!
We go on lots of walks and bike rides, all spring, summer and fall.
we spend lots of time at the park, camping and learning about history stuff sometimes things like remembrance day what it stands for why we honor it , we learn about pioneers
we learn about the things I don't want my kids to forget about that are real and that happened, not just what's happening now .
I feel like this generation lets kids be lazy that some parents are enabling them, those that don't let them have experiences that they could learn and grow from. I think some parents hinder and protect there kids too much like not letting them go on a scout camp or a girls camp whatever because why???
"they just don't feel like it" or don't want to be separated from that cell phone or that game boy. Or its to much work??? WHAT. Too many kids miss so many important opportunities out there to be had.
I just feel like sometimes they {electronics} take so much away from the quality of life in young people, and us too I guess .
{ I admit I am mildly addicted to my computer:}
Does anybody else feel like this? Or maybe I am just really old- fashioned.
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I often think about this poem:
SATAN'S MEETING:
Satan called a worldwide convention of his followers.
In his opening address he said,
'We can't keep Christians from going to church.'
'We can't keep them from reading their Bibles, Book of Mormons and knowing the truth.'
'We can't even keep them from forming an intimate relationship with their savior.'
'Once they gain that connection, our power over them is broken.'
So let them go to their churches; let them have their covered dish dinners,
BUT steal their time, so they don't have time to develop a relationship with Jesus Christ.'
'This is what I want you to do,' said the devil:
'Distract them from gaining hold of their Savior and maintaining that vital connection throughout their day!'
'How shall we do this?' his followers shouted.
Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and invent innumerable schemes to occupy their minds,' he answered.
Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow, borrow, borrow.'
'Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and the husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours a day, so they can afford their empty lifestyles.'
'Keep them from spending time with their children.'
'As their families fragment, soon, their homes will offer no escape from the pressures of work!'
'Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear that still, small voice.'
Entice them to play the radio or cd player whenever they drive.' 'To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going constantly in their home and see to it that every store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical music constantly.'
This will jam their minds and break that union with Christ.'
'Fill the coffee tables with magazines and newspapers.'
'Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day.'
'Invade their driving moments with billboards.'
'Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter and promotional offering free products, services and false hopes.'
Keep skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and TV so their husbands will believe that outward beauty is what's important,
'That will fragment their families quickly!'
'Give them Santa Clause to distract them from teaching their children the real meaning of Christmas.'
Give them an Easter bunny so they won't talk about his resurrection and power over sin and
'Even in their recreation, let them be excessive.'
'Have them return from their recreation exhausted.'
'Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect on God's creation. Send them to amusement parks, sporting events, plays, concerts, and movies instead. 'Keep them busy, busy, busy!'
And when they meet for spiritual fellowship, involve them in gossip and small talk so that they leave with troubled consciences.'
'Crowd their lives with so many good causes they have no time to seek power from Jesus.'
'Soon they will be working in their own strength, sacrificing their health and family for the good of the cause.'
'It will work!' 'It will work!'
It was quite a plan!
The followers went eagerly to their assignments causing Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed, going here and there.
Having little time for their God or their families.
Having no time to tell others about the love of Jesus and a loving Heavenly Father that can change lives.
I guess the question is, has the devil been successful in his schemes?
You be the judge!!!!!
So How much time do wii waste??
Something to think about.
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Have A Great Week!Make the most of it!
CrEATe BaLanCE.
If people never did SILLY things nothing intelligent would ever get done.
-Ludwig Wittgenstein


10 comments:
You are So right on Christal! Wii, Video games, i-pods, cell phones.....it's just constant NOISE NOISE NOISE! (Can you picture the Grinch saying that? That's what he said too. LOL! Little did he know how right he is.)
We have all the above, but they are held to time and age limits. No cell phone until they are 18 AND on their own and Working or going to school. No i-pod until they are in High School and can be RESPONSIBLE with it. No video games (just a few that their Aunt gave them......the old Nintendo version, that's not much up to speed anyway) unless ALL homework and studying is done first. I find that with limits like that, they tend to head outside when the sun is shining more, because they aren't already wrapped up in mindless time wasting. I've seen that glazed look before when something like that becomes addicting.
In high school they are busy with a part time job. So there's less time for fun for anyway. HA ha! Kidding. So I think BALANCE is the TOTAL key.
Great Post!
Great post Christal....totally got me thinking. There really are LOTS of time wasters out there...and I have to admit the computer is my guilty pleasure. We did sucumb and buy a Wii, much to Tyler's dismay. I begged and pleaded after I had the baby telling him I want to loose the baby weight and use the Wii Fit. Honestly...it totally and completly SUCKS! It doesn't get your heart rate up at all. Mind you it was fun and we had a few good laughs..but in my opinion it is not a tool to loose weight. So I sold it! LOL! BUt kept the Wii. LOL! So far it hasn't been to big of an addiction at least not during the week which is good. Anyway enough of my rambling...thanks for the reminder.
That was a GREAT post, and a great little poem. I've been really thinking about this lately, and I've realized that I spend WAY too much time on the computer and have been cutting back like CRAZY. It's amazing how quickly it can go from 5 minutes to 2 hours. We also have the Wii but it is one of those VERY special things that we play with on very rare occasions.
Thanks for helping me remember why I have been feeling the way I have lately.... I think Satan definately knows one of my weaknesses...but he won't win. :)
Have a great week!!
I just love your Me Thinks every Monday. It is something I llok forward to AND something I wish I did a lot more of....putting my thoughts down!
I agree.
Loved the poem. It's SO true.
I agree with all the time wasters there are...the computer can be my pitfall for sure. It's amazing how you sit down to quickly do something and then realize an hour has passed. I needed a little reminder in this area for sure. Great thoughts!
Wow! I could have written these words myself! Steve and I feel very strongly about making sure kids (especially little ones) don't waste time playing video games and never get outside and run and play. It is hard to totally stay away from technology, but I believe parents must really be diligent about it.
I loved you poem about what Satan wants to do to families! That is so true!
So true! I think that is one of the biggest challenges of our day... where we choose to spend our time. Thanks for the insight once again! You're amazing.
And poor Kolt! Holy cow! I hope he's feeling better. That's quite the goose egg under the stitches!
Def. a great post! It is very true. I'm not a big gamer myself. I especially dislike the violent games. It is a very fine line and we all need to take a look and priotize our lives. I am in desperate need of balance! :) I think we all are! Have a great day!!!
Hi Crystal,
I don't even know you, so I feel a bit sheepish commenting on this post...
First I want you to know that I have read your blog more than once and find your comments to be bang on and very motivational. This last post is no different, I do however have one comment to make that you can ignore completely, or maybe think about it as I feel it might have some merit.
I have 7 children and fought the whole video game thing until my oldest son was well past what I presume yours is in age. I fought it for the exact same reasons that you do and would have continued to do so until...
When my oldest son was 11 he started to spend an unusual amount of his free time over at various friends houses "playing" It wasn't until I did some questioning that I found out that he was "Playing" computer games the whole time that he spent away at friends houses. I was devastated to say the least and went to all kinds of extremes to un do what I percieved to be a big problem. To my dismay this only escalated the problem. Now I know your probably thinking... I know what my child does at friends houses and it's not that and even if it is it's not all the time... Long story short, we decided that if our children were going to play video games it would be on our terms in our house were we could monitor time, content and with whom they were playing. So we bought a Nintendo... I hope I don't come across as one trying to convince you to run out and buy up the first gaming system you can find. Put it off as long as you can, forever maybe, I just gather from the kind of parent you seem to be that you might get to a point where you would rather have your kids playing at your home than everyone elses!
Just so you know, my kids are only allowed to play on the weekend( not including sunday of course) and I have never had to make a huge deal about how much they play as we are a very active family and they will often choose out door pursuits over video games anyway! Like you said it's all about Moderation and Balance!
This is long... I love your blog and hope you don't mind me rambling on
Karen
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