{Me thinks Monday...}

Me thinks this Monday

I am to tired to even think
after a very long day of
a very fussy 2 month old
a very disobedient 3 year old
a very whiny 5 year old
and a very tired 7 year old....

but if I were to think
it would
be on judging
we had an great lesson in RS yesterday on
FRIENDS
what makes a good friend?
what makes one feel like they have friends? what makes one feel accepted loved and apart of a group of friends?......

Lynn added this in the comments that the teacher in her ward told, I think its perfect so I'm adding it here:

"A true friend is TRULY and sincerely happy for another person. Not just says "Oh I am happy for you"......and then talks or grumbles or complains about them in their head.

A true friend is SO happy for another person that they really mean it.

....... Even when that other person has a son going on a mission and yours did not.

....... Even when that other person's husband got another job after only being laid off two months ago and your husband is still unemployed after 1 year!

...... Even when that other person has just received another child and you still are trying for just one

......... Even when that other person's daughter has found love at 19 and is getting married in the temple, when your daughter is 23 and still has no one to even date her.......etc, etc.

"WOW! So true. True friendship is TRUE and sincere Friendship.

No matter what. {-thanks lynn}

my answer or thoughts on it were
if
we got rid of the judging
everyone would be more considerate, compassionate, understanding,
helping and aware of others...no matter what
the secret thoughts of others and ourselves
at that instant first impression second or third impression
judging happens every time
with thoughts like these...
...she's to pretty
..she looks to smart..
.....she's to skinny
...she's to talented
...she has kids
...she's to loud
..she's to quiet
...she doesn't like me... i think
...COMPARING is a big problem
the route of maybe???
COMPARING AND JUDGING
go hand in hand.....
I live in a little house
she lives in a big house
who cares really
who cares
does that make you who you are inside?
NO
We need to look beyond what we THINK
and stretch ourselves to find out a little more about
someone else
just because they don't act look or play the part we think they should
doesn't that give us more reason to extend ourselves
give of ourselves and
find a new friend
maybe in the unexpected
cause we are all fighting some kind of battle.
So maybe we should stop judging.
It's kind of like this for example...
go here

"if you judge people, you have no time to love them."
just a thought {and a laugh.}
from a tired girl.

HAVE A GREAT WEEK.
{ps ever find a song that is perfect for your day? and think I needed that
turn up your volume that's mine today....}